in what way can you share happiness to other people?
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in what way can you share happiness to other people?
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Well, this is what strikes on my mind, at your notion of making everyone happy or giving happiness to all!
When you attempt to make someone happy,
You do all that you think can make that person happy. Failed. Your idea about what would make them happy doesn't actually make them happy.
You try again, now with all that the person wants to be done, to be happy with you. Failed, again. Out of 100 things done by you, 1 didn't turn out well, or according to that person’s wishes or somehow you just couldn't. Rest 99 that had been performed successfully are buried under the ground and you will be blamed for that 1 out of 100, which was unfavorable.
Net result - Unhappy people around you.
Now let's see what happens to you when you set out to make others happy,
You waste your time.
You waste your efforts.
You feel betrayed.
You create complexities and find yourself in messed up situations.
You feel being taken for granted.
You feel frustrated.
Net result- Unhappy YOU. And an unhappy you in turn makes others unhappy too.
But wait, I still have a solution to your question.
What is the best way to give happiness to all?
Keep yourself happy and busy. Tie yourself to your life goals and not to other human beings and their happiness. Focus on improving yourself rather than finding faults in others.
How does it help achieve happiness of all?
When you are happy and content with your life, you make less nuisance in someone else's life.
When you are not frustated, you don't need someone to let it out.
When there is peace in your life, you are least bothered to interfere in other's.
You can give happiness to all, not by fulfilling all their desires and expectations from you, but by avoiding things that cause discomfort and unnecessary troubles in their lives.
This in my opinion is a more practical way to make others happy. Else, its better not to attempt this stunt in your life. Even expert’s guidance won't be able to save you from disaster.