im scared itll hurt!!~
my boyfriend is pressuring me 2 sleep with him i dont kno if im ready but he tells me itll b okay wut do i do?
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im scared itll hurt!!~
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If you're not ready, and he keeps on pressuring you, dump him. No one who cares about you will make you do something you don't want to do.
Life is entirely too short to allow someone to pressure you into making a decision like this. When you are ready you will no it. You are worth waiting. If this boyfriend is not willing to wait for you then he doesn't truly love you. Do you really want your first time to be with someone who feels his physical needs are more important then your desire to be ready? Ultimately the decision is yours and no one else. There is only one first time. It should be something you take seriously. that doesn't mean life will end if you do have sex and it isn't what you expect you will be OK. If the other person is in a hurry, inexperienced or selfish it can by uncomfortable...all reasons to make sure it is the right person. When you are ready and it is the right person it is beautiful.
Will no one can tell you if you are ready or not. You have to understand what it all Intel's, first how will you feel the next morning about yourself. What if you get pregnant. What if you get some kind of sexual virus. How will the people feel who do love you and look up to you . And these are just the small questions you need to ask yourself. There are many more.
If he truly cared for you and wants to be with you no matter what, he would appreciate you and your decision. Don't do it unless you're absolutely ready. Don't let him force you to do it. If he keeps pressuring you, dump him. If he loved you, he'd wait until you're ready.
NO ONE should pressure you.
I had the same problem, & we had a fight over it
don't do it if you're not ready, hes not worth it if hes pressuring you.
plus, think of the consquences (sp?)
pregnancy, STDS..its all too much.
do not feel like you are alone... all most all girls with out exception are pressured by some one to have sex... it is up to you to pick the moment that you want to give it to the man or boy you love ...do not rush it ..but when that day comes enjoy it and do not feel ashamed or guilty...
She only wants your bajingo and after that he no longer pressuring you for that and maybe he will find a virgin girl. He don't deserve your V. Leave him.
Please girl, if it doesn't feel right, then why are you considering it? Also another thing is that if you sleep with him before marriage it's a sin in the eyes of God.
Do not commit adultery!
you tell him no you are not ready and yes its going to hurt and you could end up pregnant stay and no its not going to be ok if you are not ready
don't do it sweetie! you will regret for this, trust me. you will have it in the right time. if he still keeps pressuring you dump him off! he shouldn't force you to do something you aren't wiling to do. he doesn't love you. it's just his little buddy in between his legs.