I really don't know what to do. she was my motive for everything in life(I really wanted to buy her a house with a garden)... i feel so Numb!
Thanks everyone i really need your help
I really don't know what to do. she was my motive for everything in life(I really wanted to buy her a house with a garden)... i feel so Numb!
Thanks everyone i really need your help
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I am so sorry to hear that. Well what you can do is move into a house with a garden, keep it up and you will always think of your mom when you work in the garden. She will always be with you.
God Bless you and everything will work out.
Alex
This happened to me in May of 2006. She was my best friend. I was left with nothing but a big hole in my heart. I struggle to continue living but sometimes I wonder why I'm still here. At times, I don't think I serve a purpose. But I'm still here. At other times, I see the traits I admired in her come out in me. I'm not going to sit here and tell you it will get better because people told me that and I don't believe that. I was numb for a long time and the pain is just as bad as day 1. I'm just used to it more. You can always e-mail me if you'd like to talk. I'm here.
You have my deepest sympathy. Alex has a wonderful suggestion. The garden can be a memorial to your Mom.
It's normal and healthy to feel lost when someone you love dies.
Please find someone you can talk to, a counselor, clergy person, friend. Talking about how you feel will help you to heal and be better able to find your motivation within yourself.
My mom is the only one I have right at this point of my life. If something ever happen to her, I can't and will never forgive myself and God for taking her away from me.
Im very sorry about your lose , i think the best thing to do is talk to somone close to you like your father/sibling/friend/partner. Tell them how you feel and they help you get better. best of luck.