Okay, so iv been talking to a friend called Jason, hes really really nice to me and i always talk to him, we met on msn but i seen him around and when i do see him we always talk, but last night he came up to my street to see me, bad idea because i had just broken up with my bf peter and peter was there Jason waved at peter and said hello and winked but Peter thinks he did it to annoy him and try to make Peter jealos but then Peter started shouting things to Jason he was like "look at you, you're such a pedofile, your so ugly" and i told Peter to stop it and i walked away with Jason now all of my friends are angry at me because they dont like Jason and Because i walked away with him and stuck up for him when i told Peter to stop it and none of my friends are talking to me anymore what do i do and btw my mum has found out about me and Jason and dosent want me to be with him again because hes 17 in september and im 14 and hes a protestant and im a catholic (different religions) and she dosent like the fact that i met up with him over the internet help please
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Honestly, I can see why your friends are upset at you. Your friends and ex-boyfriend feel how could you stand and walk away with a person who you've only see once or twice and talked to over the internet. You and peter were having a conversation and he was still your company. I'm sure that you did not know that Jason was coming over, but you could have least told jason, that you would talk to him later on when you were ready, instead of him just showing up out of the blue to your home unannounced and making peter uncomfortable by making weird faces. So, I can see why Peter was upset. But, peter didn't have to say what he said either to jason. You should have told your mum about you and jason regardless of meeting him on on-line, at least she have been mad, but she knew him at least for that much. Your mom is mad at you for even talking to someone on line, even if you are 14 years old, you can't really trust people who they say there are, aren't, and from that can make your mum thinking of the worst that can or could happen to you when you do introduce to yourself to someone whose older than you are. How is your boyfriend already when you just broke up with Peter, you need to give your more time and figure, if this the kind of relationship that you want even if your friends aren't talking to you over the situation and how it turned out. I'm sure your friends and mom will talk to you again, they need time. And jason just can't show up, you should have told him, to come to your house and meet your mom and friends at least you and him could have done it that way. It shouldn't matter if you and him are a part of different religions, but I hope that it works out.....don't rush into anything that you are not ready for, even if jason is 16 and you're 14. Take it slow....
First of all, I think your friends are mad at you and don't like your new boyfriend because you walked with him RIGHT in front of your ex that you just recently have broken up with. Honestly, you have to look at it at Peter's point of view, you the girl he likes so much has JUST broken up with him and now you bring another guy along, it makes it seem like what you guys had was not special at all and that you didn't really care about him, it was a bit heartless. It honestly was a bit rude and senseless for Jason to come when it's clear that you hurt Peter more by having Jason there since he's obviously still into you.
Also, I see part of your mother's view with the part of meeting him over the internet, when meeting people over the internet they do not always appear to be who they always claim they are and your mother is just concerned that he is dangerous or something different from what he appears. Her view is very just because the internet is a dangerous place to meet people, just make sure you're cautious with this new boy.
Aye... honestly, in my opinion you shouldn't be with a 16 (almost 17) year old dude in the first place. When you're a few years older the age gap won't mean much but at 14, eh. On top of that you met him over the internet. Your mom has the right to be protective of you. Internet dating is hardly even that safe even for adults.
It's understood that at your age, things can get quite dramatic. Be smart though. As for your drama, your friends will eventually get over it but you should still try to calmly and maturely chat with your friends about this. Good luck though.
wow u really ****** up didnt u? look do what your heart wants. if you like this guy go for it because age never matters. when i was your age i went for an older dude and we were happy till things went south. just do whatever the hell u want. my friends never like my boyfriends but my true friends still love me and try to kill them. just talk to ur friends ur 17 year old slut muffin. sorrybut.... your ex has no right to give a damn anymore. except thy always do :)
this is why young kids should not date exclusively.... y'all aren't ready for the stupid drama that comes along with it.... really. this drama is going to haunt you until you're in your late 20's to say the least so.... don't start now. i don't blame your mom.... 14 and 17 is a HUGE span at your age.
well i think if you have an age gap as big as that, it could be risky going out with him, but eh its your life.
i think if you're friends don't accept you for who you and jason are, they obviously aren't good friends and aren't worth your time but you should go to them face to face, tell them and maybe the'll come back and realize that they aren't being nice to you and they should apologize. if they don't, then you shouldn't be calling them friends
its because your only 14 your friends and family will be so worried as he is at an age to want sex your to young they also maybe worried that he tries to control you because he is 16.
just be careful.
Wow at teen drama and your mom.
youre f*cked. you f*cknut.